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             What are five words you really like?  Submitted by purplesque.  
        
    
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            For fresh ideas about how to accomplish more with others (and enjoy the closeness of community) visit Moving From Me to We blog+podcast http://www.movingfrommetowe.com/  
        
    
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            I first heard this parable when I was reporting in Europe. More recently it has popped up in over 700 places on the Internet, from Dotsie’s NABBW to ExtraMiler and Dally Kos. Guess it resonates again today.  &quot;One evening an old Cherokee told his g...
        
    
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        <title>Halberstam. Speaking Truth to Power</title>
    
    
    
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             As a reporter I held him in awe.  We all did. He was the standard bearer to which we all aspired.  Where’s the action? You’ll find David Halberstam there. What’s the truth? Read Halberstam’s article or book to find out.  Whether it was the early ...
        
    
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            Apparently when we are happy the facial muscles on our right side are more active than those on the left side. Those change more often when unhappy.  So next time you are talking with someone important to you and you try to figure out how that per...
        
    
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        <title>Tell the Detail They&#39;ll Love to Re-Tell</title>
    
    
    
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            Discover exactly how from a master at crafting the message.  Even if I often disagree with his beliefs and his stances, Roger Ailes (the man behind Fox TV)  knows how to gain attention and be remembered.  Read his bestseller You Are the Message: G...
        
    
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        <title>What Clients Love - and How Even Non-Sales Folks Can Sell</title>
    
    
    
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